PowerPhrases: the key to winning respect: saying what you mean and meaning what you say can help you become heard.

          

   

                I chose this article because I think being respected is one of the most important issues in every part of the life. Therefore,  as a person,  we need to know or learn some effective methods that provide us to get that respect.

             According to article, today, respect gets earned, never granted.The first main thing that helps winning respect is self esteem. Self esteem comes from what we project to others, about ourselves, and how it is okey or not okey for them to threat.Of course, there are many things that affect our level of respect. Dress, nonverbal communication   and financial status all affect the level of respect we get.However, words in other words speaking in PowerPhrases still make people's  final assessment about who we ,are and how to treat us.Firstly, A PowerPhrase isa short, specific expression that gets results by saying what you mean, meaning what you say, without being mean when you say it.For example, say less and they understand more,so every time less is more is very important.Secondly, Say what you mean clearly and succinctly then allow space for them to respond in kind. For instance, do not say "The kitchen is a mess" when you mean "Clean up the kitchen." Thirdly, do what you say because people respect people who do what they say. Fourthly, respect the other person, even if that person is not respecting you. And finally, speak kindly. 

         I think, these methods are very effective and useful. I will try to apply all of them step by step in my life.I know they will help me being understood better and win more respect.

           All in all, choose your words and win respect.